Marriage on Mission Weekend
A planning getaway for couples to Get Connected. Get Clarity. Get Confident.
You step away from the busyness of life & into the charming, Hallmark-like town of Waverly, IA to focus solely on your marriage & future together.
You experience the warmth of a small-town getaway designed just for the two of you with cozy cafés & welcoming local shops that make you feel at home.
You & your spouse feel more connected than ever, growing closer to each other & to God.
You develop a personalized mission statement that guides your marriage & family moving forward.
You receive guidance on how to handle hot topics like finances, spiritual life, parenting, career, home improvements, lifestyle, marriage, etc.
You have time to reflect on the past year while also developing a calendar & plan for the year ahead.
You have deep, meaningful conversations that bring clarity to your shared vision & purpose as a couple.
You prioritize a weekend to dream about your goals & get coached on how to make them happen.
Imagine this…
Make this happen with Marriage on Mission Weekend!
A weekend planned just for the two of you.
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Your Marriage on Mission Weekend begins before you even step foot in Waverly. A few weeks before your getaway, you’ll receive a Getaway Guide in your inbox—your first step in preparing for an intentional, meaningful weekend together. This guide includes a packing list and pre-weekend preparation tips to ensure you make the most of your time away. From what to bring to what convos to have before you zip up your bags, this guide will help you step into the weekend fully prepared to focus on each other, your shared vision, and the future you’re building together.
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Arrive & Align
Your weekend begins with a warm welcome, a thoughtfully curated Waverly Welcome Basket, and a peaceful space to step away from the busyness of life and focus on each other. You’ll enjoy a romantic, hands-on dinner experience, creating a delicious meal together before settling in for an evening of meaningful connection. Over a sweet treat delivered from a beloved local shop, you’ll begin vision-setting for your marriage, reflecting on where you’ve been and where you want to go. With guided coaching, prayer, and quiet moments of reflection, you’ll ease into the weekend feeling aligned, connected, and ready for all that God has in store.
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Dream & Design
Wake up to a peaceful morning of a cozy breakfast in and guided reflection, where you’ll work through eight key areas of life to create a vision for your marriage and future. Then over coffee at a charming local café, you’ll receive personalized coaching on how to turn that vision into action. After a cozy lunch at the cutest downtown diner, the afternoon is yours—whether you choose to explore downtown with exclusive local discounts, take a scenic walk, or simply rest and reflect. You’ll end the date with an elegant date night dinner out (of your choosing), with a heartfelt surprise that will capture the depth of your love, commitment, and dreams for the future.
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Plan & Pack-Up
Start your morning with a cozy breakfast in, followed by a final coaching session where we’ll turn your weekend reflections into an actionable plan. You’ll walk away with a Master To-Do List and a mapped-out calendar for the year ahead. Before you leave, you’ll be prayed over and encouraged to attend a church service together before heading home—ready to live out a marriage on mission.
Your Stay
Your Marriage on Mission Weekend is designed to be an intimate and private experience—just for you and your spouse. You’ll be the only couple hosted this weekend, ensuring a peaceful, distraction-free getaway where you can focus fully on each other.
Your stay will be in a beautifully designed, cozy home set on a private acre of land just minutes from downtown Waverly. The open-concept space features a full kitchen, a warm and inviting living area with an electric fireplace and a 70” TV, and a stunning sunroom that offers complete privacy, surrounded by evergreens and open fields.
The luxurious bathroom includes heated floors, a double vanity, and a spacious 74x60 shower—perfect for unwinding. Your master bedroom features a queen bed, Roku TV, and a serene atmosphere, while the sunroom offers an additional retreat-like sleeping space with two single beds and beautiful views.
Step outside to enjoy the private backyard with a fire pit and seating area, where you can relax under the stars. Every detail is designed to make your stay comfortable, peaceful, and memorable—a perfect setting to reflect, connect, and dream together.
The cost for the entire Marriage on Mission Weekend is $1,500. This includes:
A getaway guide sent to you before your arrival to help you prepare
A beautifully curated welcome basket with local goodies and exclusive discounts
A romantic Airbnb stay for the weekend (you’ll be the only couple hosted!)
All meals provided, except for your Saturday night dinner
A structured Our Year Ahead workbook to guide your conversations
Personalized coaching sessions with us
A powerful getaway framework you can replicate for years to come
This getaway is for you if…
You’re a husband and wife who love the Lord and desire to live out His call on your life together.
You’re a go-getter couple who aren’t about just living out the status quo.
You’d like some time to intentionally reconnect, refocus, and refine your life together.
You want someone to plan a weekend for the two of you that takes all the decision-making off your plate.
You’d love to be encouraged and coached on key areas of life.
You desire to have a marriage on mission.
This getaway is NOT for you if…
You’re looking for a quick fix in your marriage (spoiler alert: there isn’t one).
You’re stuck in your ways and not looking to grow as a couple.
You and your partner are not BOTH willing to participate together.
You could care less about living out a marriage on mission.
What does it mean to have a marriage on mission?
To prioritize each other & God’s design for marriage
To pursue shared goals & vision
To plan intentionally to live those things out
So Why Waverly?
When people think of the perfect location for a couples’ getaway, they often imagine bustling cities or scenic mountain retreats. But what if the real magic happens in a place that allows you to slow down, breathe, and truly reconnect? That’s exactly what you’ll find in Waverly, Iowa—a charming, picturesque town that offers the perfect blend of relaxation, small-town hospitality, and opportunities to rekindle the love in your marriage.
Escape the Chaos, Embrace the Connection
Unlike a big city where distractions and noise are everywhere, Waverly provides the perfect setting to step away from the busyness of life and focus entirely on each other. No honking traffic. No overwhelming tourist crowds. Just peace, simplicity, and intentionality—the ingredients needed for a meaningful, marriage-transforming experience.
A Hallmark-Worthy Atmosphere
If you’ve ever dreamed of stepping into a Hallmark movie—where the pace slows, the people are friendly, and the streets are lined with locally owned businesses that feel like home—Waverly is that place. With its historic downtown, cozy shops, and scenic trails along the Cedar River, it offers an atmosphere that makes you want to linger a little longer, hold hands a little tighter, and soak in the beauty of being together.
An Intentional Setting for an Intentional Weekend
This weekend isn’t about rushing from one attraction to another—it’s about slowing down and getting on mission. The simplicity of Waverly removes distractions, allowing you to focus on what truly matters: your relationship with God and each other.
Meet Your Coaches
You may be asking… why should we trust you?
That’s a valid question, and we love that you’re thinking critically about who’s guiding you!
We’re Tyler and Madison Metcalf, and we’re so excited to meet you.
Madison has spent years serving in full-time ministry, walking alongside couples and individuals as they navigate family, faith, and finances. She is a Prepare Enrich marriage facilitator, guiding couples through premarital counseling and marital growth. As a published author and speaker, she’s shared biblical wisdom with thousands, helping couples break free from financial stress, build strong communication, and create a marriage that honors God.
Tyler is a financial advisor with over five years of experience and has also served in ministry for even longer. He’s passionate about seeing marriages thrive—not just financially, but in all areas of life. Oh, and he’s also the best girl dad on the planet.
We’ve been in the trenches of life transitions—multiple job changes, two moves, and two babies all within four years. Through it all, we remained committed to each other and to honoring God in our marriage. In the midst of the chaos, we tackled over $100,000 of debt in just 48 months, all while maintaining a life and marriage we loved.
We know what it’s like to face uncertainty, change, and financial challenges. But more importantly, we know what it takes to come through stronger, more united, and more in love than ever before. And now, we want to help you do the same.
FAQs
Who is Marriage on Mission Weekend for?
This retreat is designed for married couples who desire to grow closer to each other and to God. Whether you’ve been married for a couple years or a couple decades, this weekend is for couples who want to refocus, reconnect, and realign their marriage with a shared mission. It’s not for couples in deep crisis or those looking for professional marriage counseling—this is a faith-based experience to help you dream, plan, and strengthen your relationship.
How much does it cost, and what’s included?
The cost for the entire Marriage on Mission Weekend is $1,500. This includes:
A getaway guide sent to you before your arrival to help you prepare
A beautifully curated welcome basket with local goodies and exclusive discounts
A romantic Airbnb stay for the weekend (you’ll be the only couple hosted!)
All meals provided, except for your Saturday night dinner
A structured Our Year Ahead workbook to guide your conversations
Personalized coaching sessions with us
A powerful getaway framework you can replicate for years to come
The only additional expense is your Saturday night dinner, which you’ll enjoy at a charming local restaurant of your choice.
Is this marriage counseling?
No, this is not counseling or therapy. This weekend is a faith-based coaching experience that will guide you through structured conversations about your marriage, finances, future goals, and more. While we provide biblical wisdom, practical tools, and coaching, this is not a substitute for professional counseling or therapy.
Will this be a group event with other couples?
Nope! This is an intimate, private getaway designed just for you and your spouse. You won’t be sharing the weekend with other couples—this is your time to focus on each other without distractions. We will be available for coaching and guidance at specific times, but the experience is curated to give you intentional quality time as a couple.
What happens when I apply?
Once you submit your application, I'll personally review it to ensure the weekend is a great fit for you and your spouse. If approved, you'll receive an email with available dates and a private link to book your spot. This process helps create the best experience for everyone attending!
What if we have dietary restrictions?
No problem at all! When you register, we’ll ask about any dietary restrictions or preferences, and we’ll make sure your meals are tailored to accommodate your needs.
What should we bring?
Before your arrival, you’ll receive a planning getaway book that will include a packing list and preparation tips to ensure you get the most out of your weekend. The most important thing to bring is an open heart ready for connection and growth.
When are the Marriage on Mission Weekends?
Marriage on Mission Weekends are offered on select dates throughout the year. Once your application is approved, you'll receive a list of available weekends to choose from. Availability is limited, so be sure to apply early!
How is this different from The Marriage Course?
The Marriage Course helps you understand and live out the basics of a strong, God-honoring marriage, covering key topics like communication, conflict resolution, and intimacy. The Marriage on Mission Weekend, however, goes beyond the basics—it’s a hands-on, guided experience designed to help you and your spouse create a clear vision, set goals, and make an actionable plan for your future together.
What makes this different from a regular weekend getaway?
Unlike a typical vacation, this experience is designed to be intentional and transformative. Yes, you’ll enjoy relaxation, romance, and quality time together—but you’ll also walk away with a clear vision, renewed intimacy, and an actionable plan for your marriage. This weekend isn’t just about escaping from everyday life—it’s about investing in your future together.
Still not ready?
No worries. Here are some freebies we’d love to just bless you with as you pray on it!
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Fun Talk Freebie
Ever wonder what things you should talk through before getting married? Get this talk sheet that guides you through crucial conversations you should be having.
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Finance Freebie
Don’t be like the majority of Americans living paycheck to paycheck. Get a plan for monthly expenses and feel good about where your money is going.
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Food Freebie
Never let dinner be a point of conflict or tension again! Get 4 weeks worth of dinner ideas for you and your honey to try!